Friday, September 23, 2011
if you're a bully, turn that energy in on yourself and ask yourself what are you gaining at someone else's turmoil. ask yourself, do I really feel better destroying someone? yes you are destroying someone by taunting them or making them feel bad about themselves for what ever reason you do it. you pick on people for such things such as looks, sexuality, lifestyle or whatever reason you think you are better. how can you live with yourself knowing that? do you have the strength to ask yourself those questions? do you have the strength to look inside yourself and honestly investigate what makes you do that? more importantly, do you have the strength to change? I ask if you have the strength because it will take strength to ask those questions and do the work to change. to find something real to make you feel better about yourself. a truly epic person could do that. they could be the better person and stop that behavior. just remember that one day YOU might be on the other end and wish with all your breaking heart that the person bullying you could do the same.